When you get a divorce can you get alimony from the spouse if you have been married for a long time?

Yes you can! You have to have proof that you've been with that person for many years, for example the judge may request for some proof- you can provide letters with dates, time, photos of the both of you and him and any type of doent that can demonstrate their was a relationship for many years. I hope this can help- Good Luck!